If you’re searching for ways to chat with bisexual people or couples, it can be hard to find where to start. If you do a quick Google search on the subject, you get pages of results, but it’s difficult to narrow down the ones that are actually legitimate and worth your time. Hopefully, this list of the 13 best bisexual chat rooms and apps can help.
Table of Contents
- 5 best bi and bi-curious chat rooms and websites
- Bi and bi-curious chat apps
- Lesbian and bisexual women chat apps
- Gay and bisexual men chat apps
Best Chat Rooms and Websites for Bi and Bi-Curious People
If you’re looking for a great bisexual chat site on which to meet a ton of people, BiCupid has you covered. The site has over one million registered, active users. You can sign up for either a free or paid account. Full access to the site requires a paid account, but you can still browse profiles, view your matches and send limited messages with the free account.
It takes less than five minutes to sign up, and setting up your profile is very straightforward and simple. The site has a lot of great features and is totally user-friendly. If you’re looking for a starting place strictly to meet other bisexuals, this is a good one.
AdultFriendFinder is hands-down one of the most well-known websites for finding sexual partners. It’s membership numbers – over 80 million users! – far surpass the membership numbers of any other adult dating site. It’s a great place to find hookups, fetish partners, casual dates and other non-serious relationships. It is not, however, strictly limited to bisexual people. That’s where it differs from BiCupid.
There are tons of bisexual people who use the site; however, you might get several unsolicited messages from non-bisexual people as well. Even so, AdultFriendFinder is definitely worth it for the free bisexual chat rooms if offers. When AdultFriendFinder first came on the scene, it offered every one of its chat rooms for free.
The site has since designated specific chat rooms as “premium members only,” but there are still several that are 100% free and open to anyone. If you’re looking for a place that has free bisexual chat and doesn’t mind potentially being contacted by non-bisexuals on occasion, AdultFriendFinder should be your first stop.
If you’ve never used it before though, be aware that it’s definitely NSFW.
Bisexual Playground has been around for about 15 years, and it’s actually a really great site with some awesome features for both free and paid memberships. While people with free memberships can’t enter the bi chat rooms, they can create profiles, view other members’ profiles and send messages using the integrated email system and instant messaging feature.
With a paid membership, though, members can do all of that and more. Users with paid memberships can enter into any chat room, but even better than that, they can actually create their own, private bi chat rooms to facilitate bi and bi-curious chat with other members. They also have the use of an advanced search function and unlimited access to all forums. It’s a really great site for people looking to chat with bisexual men, women or couples.
LGBTChat is designed for people looking for lesbian, gay and bi chat rooms, although this site is less about hooking up and more about building a community. It’s a free bi chat room that requires you to sign up but doesn’t require you to pay. The site does ask for a five dollar donation to keep it running with minimal ads, but even that’s optional. Most of the chat takes place in the wide variety of forums the site offers. These include forums with topics on things like:
- Questioning and General LGBT
- Bisexual and Pansexual
- Asexual and Grey-Ace
There are even forums unrelated to sexuality and gender identity. These include:
- News & Politics
- Artists & Art
If you’re looking to meet and connect with like-minded people on a free bisexual chat site, this is a good one.
7 Cups is another great option if you’re looking for bi chat rooms. It’s quite similar to LGBTChat in that it’s more for people wanting to connect with a community than a hookup site. It’s also completely free. It has all kinds of great features including an open-to-all LGBT chat room, one-on-one chat and more. This is a place to explore your sexuality, talk through your gender identity or discuss best practices for coming out. There are also group support chats available.
Best Chat Apps for Bi and Bi-Curious People
The BiCupid app is practically the same as the BiCupid website. The only difference is the app works with all of your mobile devices. Just like the BiCupid website, users of the app will create their profiles, upload their pictures and select between standard (free) access and premium (paid) access. Standard access lets users browse profiles and “wink at” ones they like. If the person they wink at is a premium member and likes what s/he sees, s/he can initiate a message with the standard user, and the two can chat back and forth.
Premium members have full access to chat in all circumstances.
If you’re looking for a bisexual chat app that’s absolutely free, try Taimi. Taimi does have a paid option called Taimi XL, but the great thing about Taimi is that even with the free account, you’ll be able to swipe, match and chat with any of your matches without ever having to pay a cent. So if all you’re really looking for is a place to chat with bisexual people, the free account is all you’ll need. You do have to match with a person in order to chat though.
Best Chat Apps for Lesbians and Bisexual Women
If you’re looking for a bi chat room specifically designed to allow lesbian and bi girls to chat, you should definitely check out HER. HER is a bisexual chat app designed specifically for LGBTQ women to chat with other LGBTQ women. Whether you’re looking for lesbian chat, bisexual chat, bi-curious chat or something else, HER has it. Although there’s an upgraded, premium version for paid users, all the core aspects of the app are available completely for free.
The app is for both cis and transgender women, as well as those who are non-binary. Users must be at least 18 to sign up with the app, which has three main sections:
- Meet: Browse and like others’ profiles.
- Chat: Chat with other members with whom you’ve matched.
- Feed: Visit the app’s daily feed to read the blog, see upcoming LGBT events, etc.
Referred to as “The World’s Best Ranked Dating App for Queer Women,” Zoe is another great app that’ll allow you to chat with bisexual women. Like most dating apps, there’s a premium and a free membership. Free users of the app can still swipe through profiles and like them. If another user likes their profile as well, the two users can then chat directly. Premium users can see every user who has liked their profile.
Best Chat Apps for Gays and Bisexual Men
Grindr is probably the most popular hookup app for men looking to meet other men. It relies on geolocation to let users know when there’s another gay or bisexual man within close proximity. The two users see each other’s profiles, and if they’re interested, they’re matched and can decide to meet up and hook up. The paid account, Grindr Xtra, allows users to see six times the men. It also allows users to search for non-local men.
The Gaydar app is quite a bit like the Zoe app, only Gaydar is for queer, gay and bi men to chat with one another. The same basic setup applies though. You, the user, can swipe through profiles and select the ones you like. If a user whose profile you liked likes you back, the two of you can then chat directly. Even users with free membership can send as many messages as he wants. You can upgrade for premium features.
In many ways, GuySpy is quite similar to Grindr. There are free and paid options, but for chatting and meeting bisexual men, the free app is sufficient. The app is location-based, and it connects you with other LGBT men in proximity to you. The app allows you to upload multiple photos, and once you connect with someone, you can chat, send additional photos and even use the voice and video messaging features. You can also search for other users in remote locations, which is great if you’re moving or planning a trip.
Scruff is one of the largest, safest and most reliable apps for LGBTQ men to chat with bisexual, gay and queer men. Scruff sends free users 25 matches a day. Users can then choose to ignore or reach out to those matches and start chatting. The best features Scruff offers come with the Scruff Pro (paid) membership. This allows members unlimited access to their chat histories, unlimited private album sharing, no ads and ten times the daily matches, as well as the ability to send and receive video messages.
If you’re looking to meet and connect with other bisexual people in your area, don’t despair. There are definitely sites out there that allow you to do that. These 13 sites and apps should give you several great places to start.
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